Open Arms

Open Arms
...caring for orphans and adoptive families...

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

On our way...

Open arms waiting at home....
August 10, 2009
This past week has been busy and hectic as we raced to get ready to go. The Father has performed miracle after miracle to get us here and here we are on the plane to Kiev. We prayed for and were given a peaceful morning before leaving home. Matthew and JD drove us to the airport and watched as we made our way thru security. Carol's purse needed searching and as they pulled out book after book ….Carol finally asked, “Did I leave my pocket knife in there?” Yep...that cute little mother's day present from Steve with her name engraved on it had fallen to the corner of her bag. Thankfully we were in West Columbia and security enjoyed the moment to tease a little and then gave the knife to our sons.

In Charlotte we met a great young couple who are connected with Morningstar. They are songwriters with an incredible destiny. We had a great time sharing and praying and as the Lord would have it their seats were directly behind ours for our 8 hour flight to Munich.

This past week in some ways was a blur. Monday we learned that we needed to be there in 10 days for our appointment. Monday was just literally falling on our face and crying out that we needed His strength in our weakness and lack. He gave us Isaiah 60: 22b I am the Lord; in it's time I will do this swiftly.
Tuesday started with lists and thoughts of packing and cleaning and final thoughts about the kid's rooms. Carol met Tanya for lunch. She is another lady from our area that will be taking this journey in the very near future. They had planned the lunch before we found out we were leaving. It seemed important to make all the connections we could.
Then there's clothes and lists and lists. Mama (Grandma) was getting more anxious by the day. We had it all planned for her someone to bring a meal at least every evening, Carol's sister Sheryl to come once each week to check..... In the end it was decided for Sarah to stay with her each day. We are all more at ease.

Wednesday was another of the same and by time for church we were exhausted and discouraged. Still needing thousands and thousands....most of the pastors were out of town for a conference this week so there wasn't even a chance to request prayer that evening. Carol got into the car crying, not upset with the body at all, just desperate for Jesus. Isn't that always where we find him? We pulled the car over before we'd even left the parking lot and prayed until His peace settled. We knew money or not, nothing mattered but jumping in the river and being obedient. We would watch God send us to Ukraine. It was His doing and would be His glory.

Within 15 minutes the phone rang and a dear friend was sending money. We could go.
The Lord had told Steve the money would appear in our account one day, and Thursday that is just what happened. Carol's brother called later and shared that at that moment on Wednesday night at 7:15 pm CST in Colorado that a group there were praying for us and the Holy Spirit fell on them and he knew God had provided.

Thursday, Ann (our close friend) came and ran around town like crazy with us. The bank, the drug store, the grocery store, the department store, gathering all the little and big things. Mama gave us money for mattresses for the bunk beds.

Friday morning we were trying to finalize accommodations for Kiev. As only God could orchestrate things, our Ukrainian tutor here in Columbia is in Kiev (hasn't been home in 3 years) this week. Her home church has two apartments for rent for travelers for just a token compared to the prices of the hotels/apartments we found. We were just saying we hated to call her cell phone with the price of roaming charges for her when our phone rang. It was Luda. She asked if we wanted the apartment. Yes! God's Amazing.

And as if life isn't wonderful enough, Saturday, our son Matthew asked his girlfriend Becky to be his wife. She said yes!!! Hooray! We are so excited. Maybe a November wedding. After a day trip to the mountains they arrived home to a gathering of family and friends and a fireworks display. (Thanks Daniel)


Sunday was a sweet time of worship and as we left the service friends hugged and wished us blessings. At the door we received a sweet hug from Pastor Steven. He has no idea that Carol had prayed for that connection Wednesday night.

We received an email that afternoon from House of Hope USA. They have a ministry to the orphans that age out of the orphanage. It's hopeful that we may connect with them in Odessa while we are there.

The afternoon was spent with phone calls and family. We finished packing at 2 am ready for today. Ready to go get the kids. We were especially blessed that Steven and Cameron, our dear friends, had made it home from Montana and over to see us before we left for the airport. God is so good.

View from our room: more pictures today...

Monday, August 3, 2009

OK HERE WE GO!

We are so excited to share that we have an appointment next week, August 13th, with the SDA. This happened a few weeks sooner than we were expecting and we have just days to gather everything and catch a plane to Ukraine. We are so overjoyed and excited. Did I mention overwhelmed? So much to do and so little time left. We had hoped for a few more fund raisers....but with no more time, at this point we have to trust that God alone is faithful and He will meet every need. If you can spread the word to your friends and family and ask them to pray with us, we would so appreciate the covering. Some of our prayer request are:

1) HELP!!!(we learned this prayer from John Wimber.)
2)Peace throughout the entire process,
3) All the necessary funds to be received (we are still short),
4) Favor with all the officials we come in contact with,
5) Safe travel for us, and
6) Peace for the children as they make this huge transition.

Thanks so much to everyone....

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Lord Bless Me

Lord bless me and bless me a lot. That was in one of our devotionals this past week. Just what we need. His hand of blessing on our lives, so that we can in turn bless others.

We had to send an updated deed requested by the SDA (state department of adoption) last week. It was received on Monday in Ukraine by our facilitator, translated and submitted yesterday. We hope to hear of our appointment date next week. We've kept busy doing lots of correspondence with other adoptive parents. They are a wealth of encouragement and useful information. We been so happy to establish these new relationships. That's one thing about connecting with a brother or sister in Christ...you already have a mutual place to move forward from and we all just want to help one another through whatever is at hand. Every situation is different but they are all similar too.

The last few weeks we've been giving some thought to the new adoption ministry at our church, Open Arms. There are so many directions we could go. Please pray as we take the time to see where the Lord wants this to go. It's all about Him and how we can be His hands to orphans. We hope to start by meeting with interested families to find out what others needs are and try to go forward from there.

It's time to start thinking about what to pack and what to take. There is just so much we would like to take to the orphans that we won't be bringing home. We just want to love on them while we are there and if anything can make their day a little brighter, that would be our heart. We are open to any ideas or suggestions particularly from those who have gone before us.

As always, please continue to pray for our finances. We still have a ways to go.

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend,....be blessed indeed.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

What's Going On

Friday a week ago we went shopping for bunk beds for the boys room. We had been looking for a while and we knew we wanted to have their room set up before we travel so it was time to get moving. We looked new and used and it was a very disappointing day. They were either inexpensive enough but not sturdy enough for teenage boys or very sturdy and very expensive....we came home rather discouraged! We prayed that night. “Lord, we need money and bunk-beds.” That all we really asked. We were tired and went to bed.

Samuel and Josiah (grandsons 3 and 1) were staying with us for the weekend so we were up early on Saturday. The phone rang during our breakfast of French Toast. It was Matthew's girlfriend's mom, Candy. “You still need bunk-beds?” she asked. “Yes, how much?” She said another friend had found them at a yard sale for twenty bucks! We jumped in the truck to go pick them up. Not only that, they were selling the Bed in a Bag sheet sets for $10 each! Then she wouldn't let us pay her back! God is so amazing!

Sunday the 12th we launched our adoption ministry at church. Open Arms Adoption Ministry is planning to facilitate those in the adoption process. We also plan to start a support group in the fall for those who have adopted, those considering adoption, and those in the process. People need support when they come home, who better to help than those who've already walked the road. We have lots of other ideas that we will share as we make firm plans.

Monday's are usually our night to study with our Ukrainian tutor. She is a very sweet lady. She invited us to come to her home on Wednesday for a special Ukrainian meal in honor of her Father's 100th birthday. It was an incredible meal of borscht, beet salad, another cold veggie salad, bread and as always her wonderful desserts.

Yesterday was spent drafting wills and having a bake sale ( thanks to Becky and Candy) to raise money for the adoption. Thank you so much Matthew for your hours and hours of work on the forms and Shannon for your time and generous heart! People came and took care of their estate planning and all the proceeds were donated to our adoption fund. There is more than enough to cover our round trip tickets. Thanks so much to everyone who helped and participated. You are all an important part of this process. We really couldn't do this without you.

Hope you all have a wonderful week!

Monday, July 13, 2009

Wills for Orphans

Saturday, July 18, 2009 we will have a "Wills for Orphans" day at our church. Our friend,Shanon Burnett, a local attorney, has offered to donated her day to draft wills and power of attorneys for who ever shows up at Christian Life Assembly between 9am and 4pm. She is charging half her normal price with all the proceeds going to our adoption fund. So people can help their family by helping 4 orphans have a family of their own. If anyone is interested in participating just let us know and we can get you all the details. Thank you so much Shannon!

We have rumors of an appointment date, but we will wait until we get the final news to post the details. We are getting more and more impatient to travel. We would like to get the children before school starts back.

There is a couple in Ukraine now that has just adopted their son Josh. They had a birthday party for Josh and Lyonya and Pasha went to the party. They sent us a photo of Lyonya. Enjoy!


Off to go study Russian with our tutor tonight! Will let you know dates when we do.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

While we wait...

We had the day off work last Friday, June 26th, and try as hard as we might to get out of town it was kinda like walking thru mud. There was a dossier to be mailed, errands to run for our Mama, a house to clean and clothes to pack.

We were going to see "Grandma" Lela Steele in Florida. We couldn't quite explain why we had to go see her. We didn't even know her, but we knew we needed to go. Well, it took a while but by 3:20 pm we were leaving the UPS Store parking lot and praying for our package to travel on the wings of an angel. (the package made it by Tuesday!) We knew when we left that parking lot that things would never be the same. We sent out a text message to our close friends (Yeah! Dossier on its way!) and left town for Florida. It was one of the most peace filled weekends we can remember.


For those of you who don't know Grandma Lela please visit the following site to see her work in Ukraine. (www.harvestinternational.org) Sorry I couldn't get the link to work. She fell a couple months ago and broke her hip. She returned to Florida for medical treatment and is doing much better. She is such an inspiration. Her stories of the orphans in Ukraine and her work there are both heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time. She has a wealth of wisdom to take in. Please pray for her continued recovery.